Invincibelle Profile
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The Beginning
What were some of the challenges of growing up in an ethnically diverse environment?
I grew up in the 1950’s in the racially segregated South. We lived in a White neighborhood in one of ten homes owned by Blacks. I watched and participated in US evolution from segregation to integration. I was in all-White schools (when you’re one of three minorities, it’s all-White) for the first nine years and faced the ugly side of racism daily. The biggest challenge was constantly shifting between wonderful times with my White friends and hurtful relationships of racist and ignorant White adults (including many of my teachers) and children.
What problems did you face in school or colleage?
When I entered a predominately Black High School my biggest problem was becoming fluently bilingual (Blacks speak two languages – one in public and one at home).
What were some of the things you learnt on the way?
Great teachers are rare but are the difference between success and failure. Parents who believe their children can achieve anything raise children who achieve everything.
. The Transition
What challenges did you face in the transition to get to where you are today?
I’ve been involved in diversity, affirmative action and developing inclusion since 1974 (before it was popular or understood). I’ve been a Woman of Color owned business since 1990. I’ve faced the need to be twice as good, work twice as hard in order to succeed in a world that is not accustomed to successful African American women. Yeas ago I was told by a White male client that if he’d known I was a Black woman I would not have made it to the discussion stage for his business and he knew that there were others who shared his sentiments.
I also faced all the challenges that consulting firms face – the rollercoaster nature of business, the growth of competition and trying to have a life while succeeding in business.
If given an opportunity, what would you have done differently?
Nothing. Everything that has happened in my life, all of the decisions I’ve made have brought me to where I am today. I wouldn’t be who I am without all the experiences, pitfalls missteps and challenges that brought me here.
What kept you inspired to do better?
I come from a long line of strong achieving Black women. The expectations that I would be successful and care about changing the world for the better has always been a part o my life.
I’ve been inspired by my mother, Katherine Taylor Smith, Rosa Parks and Flo Kennedy, women who cared more about changing the world than their own safety or security.
. The Present
What are your current personal & professional pursuits?
I am working on my second book that focuses on the part of passion; courage and faith play in achieving personal excellence. The other major pursuit is I am focusing on becoming one of the most recognized leadership and motivation speakers in the world.
What are your hobbies? How do you relax? Are you able to manage work life balance?
I have been a runner since I as seven. At 57 I run/walk (the knees aren’t as young as my face). I also play ball with my dog, watch comedies and almost any televised sporting event.
I have been with the same woman for almost 14 years and that gives my life meaning and me peace and balance.
. The Future
What is next in your life?
Next? I don’t know. I leave the path design to God and just follow His lead. So far, it’s paid off handsomely.
What resources at Invicibelle.com do you think would help women who wish to come to this country?
The life stories of others who have made it is the greatest helper. It say, “I can do it and so can you.”
. The Guidance
From your vast experience, what is your message for women who wish to either move to this country or are already here?
Do work that ignites your passion. Act courageously – do that which seems difficult or even impossible and have faith in yourself and others.
What should a multicultural woman do to grow as a leader?
Take the difficult assignments. Do not be limited by your view of anything – prejudice, others view of what you can do or the desire to be comfortable. See challenges as opportunities and always give it your best effort.
Every woman has to keep up with one or more roles – a mother, a wife, a professional. What advice you have for multicultural women who need to keep a healthy balance between these roles?
Remember, “This to shall pass”. Take 10. Tem minutes in the morning to pray, meditate, or just sit quietly and ten minutes before sleeping to do the same.
